We need to find the underlying reason why we have resentments towards others. We can do this by looking at what our part in the situation is and take responsibility for what we did.
Column 4: What is the exact nature of my wrongs, faults, mistakes, defect, shortcomings What was MY Part: Selfish / Dishonest / Self-seeking & Frightened / Inconsiderate
Are we guilty if we are dishonest about our resentments. If we don’t see our part in a resentment then it will continue to fester and keep us from being relieved of that pain and have joy and happiness into our hearts and minds.
ref: All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten: Uncommon Thoughts on Common Things, R. Fulghum.